12 Signs It’s Time to Move On….

Posted on Sep 23 2013 - 9:51pm by girlyadmin

Lots of people are in relationships, some for the right reasons and some unfortunately for the wrong. It’s hard to leave a relationship when you’ve been with someone for quite sometime. Sometimes it’s even hard to leave after a short period of time. Most people don’t like to be lonely, which is why we make excuses to stay in a bad relationship. It’s not fair to you or to your partner. Here are 12 signs you should look out for to move on from a failing relationship. Some may seem completely obvious, but most people choose to ignore these signs in order to make the relationship work. Think about it…

  1. When the relationship brings more pain than pleasure.
  2. When you begin to live more in the past than in the present.
  3. When you expect each other to change.
  4. When you stay in a relationship hoping the other will change.
  5. When you keep trying to judge your partners bad actions or behavior.
  6. When he/she is casting to much verbal, physical or emotional hurt.
  7. When the same situation or action occurs, even though you have addressed it many times before.
  8. When both of you or one of you doesn’t feel the same way about each other.
  9. When you continue the relationship expecting, hoping and thinking things will get better eventually.
  10. When the relationship begins to hold you back rather than helping you both grow together.
  11. When one or both of you puts hardly any effort or none at all into the relationship.
  12. When your fundamental beliefs and values are not the same.

Ending a relationship is difficult no matter how long or short. Just remember you are responsible for your own happiness.

Did any of these signs help you to get out of a failing relationship? Any other advice that helped rebuild or made ending the relationship easier? Let us know!!

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